Differentiation vs. distinctiveness – And why it matters

Marketers love to talk about differentiation and unique value propositions and you can burn a lot of energy trying to perfect something that really doesn't change anything in your performance.

"What makes us different?" It's the wrong question.

I know that sounds provocative. So let me explain. Byron Sharp's research at the Ehrenberg-Bass Institute — built on decades of data across hundreds of categories — makes a distinction that most marketers have never been taught: differentiation vs. distinctiveness.

Differentiation is about being meaningfully better. A unique feature. A sharper value prop. A positioning statement that separates you from the competition.

Distinctiveness is about being instantly recognizable. The color, the voice, the story structure that makes buyers think of you — before they even start comparing.

Here's the uncomfortable truth: most buyers don't spend enough time with your brand to register "different."

They spend enough time to register "familiar." And familiar is what gets recalled in a buying moment.

I've seen this up close. Working in Payments, we weren't just competing with banks or fintechs, but every aspect of how a business manages its cashflow. We were competing for memory in a space with a lot of noise. In the moment a CFO or treasurer thought "who do I call?" — we needed to already be the answer. When we shifted our campaigns to focus on building a memory, versus product differentiators, we started to build consistency for the brand. These campaigns were our main marketing vehicle that built a consistent, recognizable story across every touchpoint and channel, over time - and the performance reflected this approach resonated with better engagement across the board. But B2B is a long game, and if you change your mind (and your strategy) every quarter, you instantly lose the memory you've just invested in, and customers are quick to forget.

I see brands of all sizes getting this wrong: They rebrand when they should be reinforcing. They chase product differentiation when they should be building memory. They start over when the story just needed to be told better — and louder.

Distinctiveness isn't about being weird. It's about being consistent enough, creative enough, and present enough that buyers can find you in their memory when it counts. What's the one thing your brand is known for — not what you want to be known for, but what buyers actually remember?

If you want to geek out with me on the Marketing science behind this concept (and many others I'll share), read How Brands Grow by Byron Sharp.

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